I went for the party on my own yesterday and im glad I did.
I met people.. passed my time without worrying about how to pass my time.
Going out is a good thing.
You have something to look forward to the entire week, and then something to think about the next week.

But I was thinking.. what if ur married.. do u still look forward to going out. Is is still exciting.. you are bound to each other and to a social code of behaviour.
I suppose there are merits and demerits.
Merits are, as my parents often remind me, that you will not be lonely in old age and with other married friends.